How Healthy is Your Marriage? By submitting this form, you are granting me permission to retain your personal information for the purpose of contacting you and/or providing services to you. View my Privacy Policy here. Step 1 of 2 50% Name* First Last Email* When you’re with your own extended family, do you allow them to speak disrespectfully or negatively about your mate?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you compare your spouse to your friends’ partners or spouses?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you keep information from your mate that you think might make them mad or judgmental?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you refrain from discussing things with your mate in order to avoid conflict?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you tend to accommodate your mate’s preferences, only to resent them later?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you find yourself rehashing old hurts inflicted by your spouse in the past, having difficulty letting them go?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you disclose to friends of the opposite sex your disappointments or complaints about your marriage?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you find yourself thinking more negatively than positively about your mate or your marriage?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you find yourself judging or criticizing your mate for the ways they’re different from you?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you or your mate engage in pornography?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you complain about your mate to your family or friends?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you work late or make plans to avoid spending time with your spouse?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you fantasize about life without your spouse/partner?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you often feel your marriage restricts your freedom or limits your self-fulfillment?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlwaysDo you expect your mate to know what you need without your having to ask?*NeverSeldomSometimesMore Often Than NotAlways Are you intentional about scheduling regular date nights with each other?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverAre you transparent about sites you visit on the internet and social media?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverAre you honest with your spouse about money that you spend?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverDo you communicate with your spouse about where you are and if you’re going to be late?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverDo you protect your marriage by steering clear of extended time spent alone with someone of the opposite sex?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverDo you show an interest in what your mate is involved in, whether it be work, family matters, daily activities, hobbies, or other interests?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverDo you enjoy frequent shared activities together?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverDo you enjoy regular sexual connection?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverAre you able to repair disagreements by bedtime?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverDo you value and invite the input of your mate on important decisions, including the raising of your children if you are parents?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverDo you share the responsibilities of your life together based on your abilities, strengths or available time versus rigid role assignments?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverWhen your mate is stressed, do you look for ways to lighten their load?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverDo you accept the ways in which your mate is different from you?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverDo you trust your mate to “be there” for you when you need them?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverDo you and your spouse together identify areas that need improvement in your marriage?*AlwaysMore Often Than NotSometimesSeldomNeverInterested in getting my monthly newsletter with practical tips about how to invest in your relationship? I promise I won't spam you!*YesNo
