Let Go of Past Hurts

Let Go of Past Hurts

Earlier in your relationship, your husband may have hurt you in some way. Perhaps he failed to be there for you when you needed him. Perhaps he betrayed you in some way that wounded you to your core. Whatever the hurt, it may be helpful to process through your feelings with a wise mentor, friend, savvy pastor or therapist.

Lovingly Confront

Lovingly Confront

Some confrontation is necessary. You both have ways that are hurtful to each other and a good marriage allows for the voicing of those concerns. Learning to approach your mate gently increases the possibility of a productive outcome.

Ditch Assumptions

Ditch Assumptions

We often make assumptions about our husband’s behavior. We take what they do personally or attach meanings that may have nothing to do with what they did or thought. We can also be very confident in our assumptions. We take pride in knowing what our husband’s real motives are. We actually believe we can mind-read, and any explanation on their part is less credible than our knowing.